I've not seen an "X" used as a forge mark to date, so no help there.
(I'd be interested in a pic though. )
As for the pin, ATF does not specify pin material to be used. Some use a section of coat hanger wire, other a drill bit shank, or finishing nail shank. I use 17-4 SS pins, we stock them at work (easy button) and they melt nicely when using a Tig to P/W.